You may find it hard to believe that imprecise language could undermine your ability to merge with your heart's desire. But it's true. Your biggest wish may never be fully granted as long as you're lazy or sloppy about how you articulate it.
Try this: Write down a brief statement that crisply sums up the one experience you want more than anything else in life. Preface it with this assertion: "I am doing everything possible to accomplish the following goal."
Memorize this magic formula and repeat it twice a day until your wish is fulfilled, even if that takes ten years.
P.S. It will work best if you don't include anything about how certain people need to change in order for your longing to be fulfilled.