That uncle, Jim Elias, was the owner of Jamils Steakhouse, 4910 N. Lincoln Blvd. The year was 1976, and wanting to sell the restaurant but keep it in the family, Elias helped his nephew purchase the venue that first opened on June 1, 1964.
My uncle always wanted a family member to own Jamils, Gawey said. He believed in the idea of passing it along in the family so much that he helped me buy the place.
After 50 years, it still stands along Lincoln Boulevard in a repurposed two story house and continues to draw a loyal crowd, even a few celebrities.
Former University of Oklahoma and Dallas Cowboys football coach Barry Switzer has been a regular for most, if not all, of Jamils years in business.
I go in as often as I can now because I love the food and the ambiance, Switzer said. When a restaurant has been in business for 50 years, its got to be good.
On a recent trip to Jamils, Switzer was joined by OU greats Billy Simms and Joe Washington. The trio enjoyed a trip down memory lane as they looked at all of the football memorabilia on permanent display.
I spent a long time just looking at the pictures on the wall, Switzer said. Its a museum of football; so many players and people are depicted there, and tastefully.
But Gawey isnt entirely sure about the next 50 years at Jamils. He and his wife of 39 years have three grown daughters, but all three have careers outside of food service.
Thats probably because they all worked here for a time when they were in high school, Gawey joked.
Most restaurants dont survive five years, much less 50, and Jamils has been busier in its semi-centennial year than in recent history.
This was the first time I can remember that we were fully booked for three days for Valentines Day, Gawey said.
When Jim (Jamil) Elias opened his restaurant, that area of Lincoln, including the former Lincoln Plaza Hotel, was a nighttime hotspot.
The house had sat empty since sometime in the 1950s, and Elias liked that it reminded him of the original Jamils in Tulsa. The house had two front entrances, and rumors were that it had been a distribution hub for liquor as well as serving as a speakeasy during Prohibition.
Fifty years later, the area is not a nighttime hub, but Gawey said Jamils still sees a steady flow of customers, many who, like Switzer, have been eating at the restaurant for three or four decades. In that time, there have been changes, but not many.
We added lunches in 1994, Gawey said. That helped the flow of business. And our proximity to the (state) Capitol means that weve always had legislators in here. I have no idea how many bills have been discussed over lunch here.
Gawey said the generational stories keep him going and turned a man who wanted to be in government into a lifetime restaurateur.
People got engaged here, had first dates here, had their anniversaries here, he said. Weve always been a special occasion restaurant, and I love those stories. Its amazing to be part of stories and memories such as those.
Gawey credits the quality and value of the food, as well as the consistency of his staff, for Jamils 50-year success. Dianne Moentnish has been at Jamils for 35 years; she is the general manager, and she calls the staff her family.
We have two employees, Ralph Lowe and Mike Baldwin, who have been here since the 60s, Moentnish said. Mike has been here since it opened. When we hire people, theyre either gone in two weeks or still here 10 years later.
Jamils is one of the last Lebanese steakhouses left in Oklahoma, and that, too, is part of the appeal. Every entree comes with hummus, tabbouleh and cabbage rolls. Steaks are the bestsellers, but the smoked bologna, which Gawey calls his daily vitamin pill, has been on the menu since the beginning and remains incredibly popular 50 years later.
Were a quaint, candlelit steakhouse for dinner, Gawey said. The decor isnt fancy, and weve only modernized a few things. People keep coming back because the food is good and the value is excellent. Even with volatile food prices, we rarely raise menu prices.
Next up for Jamils is a new bar.
The old, argyle panes of glass on the back bar will be replaced, the bar top expanded and new lighting added. Its a small makeover, but one that signals that Jamils isnt done yet, even after 50 years in business.